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Showing posts with label humility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humility. Show all posts

Sunday, March 24, 2013

True humility. The hard way.



It's the morning of our last full day here in Haiti. Frankly, it's going to be easy to leave because of the work and the food. Allan says you know when it's time to leave because they're starting to serve the same food again, which was refried beans and buns. And yet, it's going to be hard because there is so much left to do. Joan is curious about the regulations for electricity and if to answer her, the power has winked off again this morning.

can you spot the spider?
Something is bothering my sinuses and I think I'm coming down with a cold. Today, we returned to the same spot as yesterday, and saw many more tarantulas. We had to walk there, because, again, the trucks would not start. As always, our system of bucket brigade is not without its glitches. Rhonda got hit in the head, as was I, by the empty buckets. 
But there was a moment of lightness and humor, when Ricardo caught one of the piglets. Mummy pig heard her baby squeal and let out a roar and chased Ricardo, snapping back at the end of her line. Ricardo dropped the piglet, who was okay, and mum returned to check her babies out. We're lucky that her line didn't break because should it have, Ricardo would've been chased around the yard by a very angry sow.

Someone has tied up several nanny goats around another mango tree, hoping they will eat the mango leaves, but they all look frightfully skinny. Though we filled up two truckloads of rubble, I did manage to take a lot of good pictures of the beautiful flowers around this yard. On the way home for lunch, we drove around a burned-out dump truck at an intersection. It had been stripped and abandoned, giving the whole area a warlike feel. The streets are dirt and gravel, rubble is piled everywhere and is guarded and hoarded.

Lunch today was rice and beans, fried chicken, spicy onion and pepper sauce, and a hot potato salad with corn and carrots. During the rest after lunch, I had to turn on the air conditioning as I began to pack. We've discovered were going to two home dedications, something I'm looking forward to. 
Of course, Allan brought his goofy teeth and scared one little girl who hugged me. He ended up giving the teeth to the boys to play with, and loads of good pictures were taken.

The first dedication was to

a man in a cowboy hat and Seattle T-shirt. Amanda presented the keys to him and he got to open his home for the first time. We gave him a few small gifts, Joan's donation was a doormat and a bandanna and Jackie some Canadian effects. Rhonda offered a sewing kit and candy, and Sharon, some facecloths. We prayed with the man, who seemed a little overwhelmed by it all.

On the way to the second house, we passed a voodoo priest's house. There was a small cross set in the cement mound with the rope and a stick attached to it, and some people say it indicates that the priest believes he's higher than Jesus. A group of young men standing nearby invited Wes to a ceremony, and I told him I would like to pray for him first. I'm concerned about witnessing such a thing, after all, to use a counterfeit analogy, bank tellers are trained to recognize counterfeit bills by handling and studying the real thing. But Wes is a student of cultures and wants to reach out and connect with his full number of followers.

We arrived at the other house, which sat on the very site of the earthquake-destroyed house. On the front porch an old woman rocked in a rocking chair. We've discovered the family is Catholic, and I told the lady I would pray for her pope, as I was touched when I read that Pope Francis' heart had been broken for the poor. Our gifts there were much the same as the previous house, with the exception of the solar shower instead of the doormat and yet they all didn't seem enough.

The little old lady lifted her hands and praised God, and I could tell by her bleary eyes she was indeed very grateful to have a home. It was truly moving experience. All this week we'd been grumbling and complaining that we weren't building a home for anyone, until it hit me right then, that this was the plan all along. This wasn't about us. We have to stop being selfish, and indeed my heart has been broken for the poor of Haiti. I am truly humbled that these people are so grateful for a small, one room shack with the tin roof. We came into this town with a high aspirations of doing good, but rather we have learned 'good' instead. I don't know how else to describe this. We weren't sent to Haiti to build rubble homes or to save a life or two, but we were sent here to learn true humility, and for me it's a hard and difficult lesson.

I looked at the rest of the day in a different light. We had a decent supper, and I wasn't hungry, and nor would I complain. Joan gave a tour of the women's quarters to the men and I walked upstairs to discover three large fish skewered on rebar, drying in the sun. I can't say yet what I'm going to take away from this journey. I need to absorb it all first. We celebrated communion together, Rhonda played a hymn on her harmonica, and we departed into the night, in a way reminiscent of the Disciples' Last Supper with Christ.

And yet like the disciples, our day wasn't over because as we were playing a game later, the truck with all the supplies finally arrived. We had to stop, change our clothes and unload it, and take showers again. It took us 40 min. to unload 50 bags of 42 kg each of cement, dozens of pieces of wood and rolls and rolls of chicken wire. How ironic that the supplies would come in after all I learned about this trip. My throat is sore, my head is full of cold and the day tomorrow will start early as we travel for 24 hours to return home. Tomorrow, I'll wrap this up with a unique trip to the airport and my thoughts on all the effort happening in Haiti.


Saturday, March 16, 2013

Haiti - glimpse into the real country - Part 1

This coming Monday, I will be blogging daily about my trip to Haiti. I want you all to tune in and read each daily entry. It's fascinating and since we lived like Haitians for a week, it's a wonderful chance to glimpse into the lives of the western world's most desperate poor. 
So, mark you calendars and come back Monday!




Early in 2012, those of us from our church interested in taking a mission trip decided that we would go to the island nation of Haiti to build rubble homes. This past week, it finally happened. We were in Haiti. Over the next week, you can read the events of what happened to us transcribed from my journal.
To bring you up to speed, I'd like to tell you a little bit about rubble homes. In Haiti, when they make cement blocks, they don't always use the correct ratio of sand, water and cement. I don't know the exact ratio to make a decent cinder block here in Canada, but I can tell you that they probably use twice as much sand in the mix in Haiti. As a result, a cinder block may look marvelous, will literally crumble if squeezed by your hand. Since the majority of the homes in Haiti were made from cinder blocks with cement ceilings, and corners of cement and re-bar, (and often another storey was built exactly the same way on top,) these homes would never stand up to an earthquake.
When the earthquake hit Haiti in 2010, the majority of these homes crumbled like sand castles being hit by a wave at the beach. And rubble lay all about. A university in the United States devised a system of building a home that though it is not earthquake-proof, is much more durable and will allow its occupants to escape relatively unhurt. After the system was tested, they began to build these single-room rubble homes in an earthquake stricken Haiti. 
A wire mesh cage, the size of the thick wall, with re-bar running from bottom to top, is set on footings, filled with rubble, which is simply the broken cinder blocks from the previous earthquake. The insides and outsides of the wall are cemented to a smooth stucco finish. An A-frame, and corrugated steel roof are added, extended at one end to create a simple porch. Two doors and windows made of specially designed diamond-holed cinder blocks, are built in to finish the home off.
So, our team traveled to Haiti to meet up with another team from the United States to hopefully build our own rubble home. For the next eight days, I will journal about our trip. For that time, we lived like Haitians in the town of Grand Goave. We weren't the first group of people to build rubble homes, and we won't be the last. But follow us along as we learn how to serve, how to work together with strangers and true humility.


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